Instead of me asking for a really nice realistic chrome material for octane 3

How am i suppose to dial in a perfect chrome material if I don't know if the HDR is the appropriate lighting for the chrome? The problem Im having is that my chrome doesn't have the depth that it should. Also, the reflections are like a mirror and I think chrome would darken the reflection as it reflects objects further away. If I adjust the "Index" the metal gets darker but thats it. The reflections still have no variation. Please keep in mind, the surface is a flat piece of chrome which is challenging because their are no curves the vary the reflection.
Lets say my image is too dark. But the HDRI is a sunny picture with lots of light. I would adjust my metal "Index" to brighten up the metal. But how do I know its just not the HDRI?
I hope this makes a little sense.